I went through something similar to pp. Except it was an x and he would tell her how much he loved hr and how he wanted to be with her. It was a hard thing to deal with, but you need to talk to him and not hold any of your feelings back. When and if you decide you are going to forgive him, things have to start from point A. My SO has given me passwrods to everything, unlimited access to phone and texts, and he knows that there is trust that has to be rebuilt. When we decided to work o things, an agreement was made, and I would not throw the emails in his face everytime we got into a fight. It is working so far, but I am not gonna lie, it is something I think abut everyday, and something that I am not sure I will ever really be over it, but I am giving it a shot.
at 8:00 PM on Oct. 23, 2010