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What If You Weren't A Mom...

If you weren't a mother, wife, spouse, etc. what do you think you would be doing right now? Are you jealous of friends/family that are not mothers yet? (Such as you wish you could go out more, looks, money, etc.)

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Asked by Sunshine4u300 at 4:11 PM on Oct. 29, 2008 in Just for Fun

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  • I would probably be in College or the military (I almost joined in 2005) And I get jealous @ times over bodies of others that do not have children.

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:12 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • I would be in Medical School and prolly studying abroad, traveling etc.... OH WELL lol
    However, I do not regret my choices as a mother and wife. I cannot imagine my life without my daughter!!!! :)

    Answer by MaiasMommy619 at 4:13 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • I would be working full-time and going to school and hopefully living in another country!!

    Answer by Anonymous at 4:13 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • I don't want to even think about where i would be if i wern't a mom my son helped turn my life around. I haven't gotten jelous of anyone with out kids, not for any of those reason s anyways. I love everything about my life as a mom.

    Answer by BabyGsMaMa13 at 4:15 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • I would probably be a hospital administrator working 16 hour days, weekends, a workaholic schedule. I would also have a great apartment/house/condo beautifully decorated. I would travel a few weeks a year to Europe, Mexico, the US states I would like to visit, Tahiti and I would have a closet full of leather shoes to match my business attire. Meals would be from Wegmans most nights and entertaining would be on my schedule a few times a year.

    Answer by manna1qd at 4:16 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • I think I would feel empty and lost

    Answer by Lynette at 4:17 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • I love my daughter too but I just wonder about the what ifs....

    Answer by Sunshine4u300 at 4:18 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • i think if i werent a mom,i probably would of dated my hubby and broke up with him eventually, dated alot of guys and working some sort of job that just lets me get by, paying my bills on my apt. or house, living in the same town my family is in. im mostly jealous of family members that already have a job and went to college and actually have something to talk about and i hate it when other family members praise them for what they accomplished, not that im jealous but havent they thought of anything that i have done with my life?

    Answer by americansugar80 at 4:22 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • i would probably be still sneaking out,ugh im glad now that i can go to places whenever with my bf
    *im 16 ;p
    i hated all the lying to my parents and sneaking out,they mostve been worried =( i was a whole different person this baby changed me.

    Answer by misty91 at 4:26 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • My husband and I would probably still be dating, living together (except he's deployed right now, so I'd be more lonely than I am now- at least I have my son). I'd have a job someplace, doing what.. who knows. I'm happy the way things turned out.

    Answer by MamaLion82007 at 4:26 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

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