My brother is getting married in 3 weeks. My step sister and her husband will be attending, and her husband is an Iraq vet who has some serious issues (as in, could flip out and kill everyone around him issues). My husband has major issues with this guy, and pissed at me for having just told him today they would be attending. (I hadn't even thought about it before today.) DH is also asking me how I plan to deal with my father, who I haven't spoken to since he tried to ruin MY wedding, and who has never met my son. I told him I don't know what to expect, so I will have to play it by ear. I feel like he should butt out and let me deal with my own family, and let it just be about my brother and his STB wife. How do I tell him to butt out without sounding like a bitch?
PS- my brother and I are both veterans, too, so please no comments about how my BIL is this brave guy for serving, etc.
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