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Is it normal to have no sex drive?

I am 22 and have a 32 month old son and a 18 month old little girl and ever since I had my daughter I haven't really been in the mood unless we have been apart for long lengths of time

 
danjazz

Asked by danjazz at 5:58 PM on Oct. 29, 2008 in Relationships

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    BrownBagLady

    Answer by BrownBagLady at 7:45 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • its very normal try to get more romantic like lighting candles or taking a bath together
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:01 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • I am in the same boat. Its horrible. We used to do it ALL the time and now its very rare. I feel bad for him and try to to him a few "favors" lol but I am NEVER in the mood anymore. Its depressing!
    Steph319

    Answer by Steph319 at 6:05 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • I think it's normal but I think you should try to re-kindle things b/c it can't go on forever. There IS meds for that if you think it's a problem... also just try getting some romance on. lol
    AshJoe05

    Answer by AshJoe05 at 7:19 PM on Oct. 29, 2008

  • i think it is very normal. i use to be a sex crazed woman(lol) but now my bf tries to have sex w/me and i cringe!!! i feel bad for him, but i am just not in the mood( 9weeks 4 days)
    newmama815

    Answer by newmama815 at 2:44 PM on Oct. 30, 2008