My husband just informed me that the loves me and cares for me but isn't in love with me anymore. He said it's not me that it's him. He said there is no one else involved. He said he has felt like this for about a month and he doesn't know why it changed.He has 2 children that I have been involved in their lives since they were 10 months and 4 yrs. and we also have a child that will be 2 in Jan. I haven't changed the way I am around him I still kiss him and hug him and do all that but he just doesn't want to talk to me. He says it hurts him to see my cry and hurting. I just don't understand what went wrong. Divorce is not an option but I don't know what to do. I love him with all my heart and I just want everything to be back to normal. He just tells me to relax let's take it one day at a time and give it some time.
Asked by Anonymous at 4:37 PM on Oct. 24, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Austinsmom35 at 5:46 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
Trying counselling might be your best bet here. If he's willing to go I would give that a shot.
Answer by tanya_marieh at 4:47 PM on Oct. 24, 2010
Answer by LoriaAnn at 4:52 PM on Oct. 24, 2010
Answer by preacherskid at 4:56 PM on Oct. 24, 2010
Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 5:19 PM on Oct. 24, 2010
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