I was just about 10 weeks when I miscarried (just discovered last week). I have been having a very hard time with this and my husband and I have been fighting daily. It's so depressing. I even broke down crying today because I'm going to get some winter clothes. It's depressing because I should be waiting to buy maternity clothes.
I've been feeling like my only option is anti-depressants, but I hate taking medications. Anyone have advice on how to get past this?
I have a confession as well. I'm not very religious, but I feel like I am being punished by God because I have had an abortion in the past and also because I had a pregnancy lost when my daughter was a year old and I was kind of relieved I lost that one, since we weren't ready. I feel like God is proving a point to me now, since we actually planned this pregnancy. Help me!
Asked by Anonymous at 2:13 PM on Oct. 25, 2010 in Trying to Conceive
Answer by ballewal at 2:16 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
I dont think you need anti-depressents but it sounds like you need to speak with a grief counselor. I am so sorry and I hope things get better soon.
Answer by Shelii at 2:16 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
Answer by 2tinyhineys at 2:17 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
Answer by karamille at 2:22 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
Answer by prettypaper at 2:26 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
I'm sorry for your loss. It takes time to go through the grieving process, and even when you think you're done things may pop up that remind you again and make you sad. Give yourself some time to process what's happened and feel sad about it. Your loss is very recent and it may take some time before you feel like moving on. Your husband may approach the situation differently than you do too. My husband accepted the explanation that "there must have been something wrong with the baby" when I miscarried, and he really didn't understand why I was so emotional for so long.
Answer by TweenAndTwinMom at 2:27 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
Answer by MaryMW at 3:35 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
Answer by 2autisticsmom at 8:06 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
Answer by BShip2010 at 12:10 PM on Oct. 26, 2010
Answer by MLH92108 at 7:18 PM on Oct. 26, 2010
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