I dont think 940 characters is enough to get it out but here goes...
This is my second go around with being pregnant, I just turned 20 yrs old, and I have a 15 month old and im 18 wks. pregnant. Ive been with the same guy for 3 and a half yrs now. The first time I got pregnant, I became very mean, and I even remember almost blacking out when I would get so mad, trying to kick him in the balls, break his things. Eventually he left, and after the first trimester I calmed down and was able to realize how stupid I was. I love this man, more than I love myself. He dated other girls, and I just sat at home pregnant crying and miserable for the next 7 months. After the baby was born we got back together and everything was great. We really were so happy. We got married in March, and then we planned to have another child i made sure he knew that my attitude was going to soar, im going to continue on another slide ...
I just read your third part... As far as who will want you, well there are plenty of good men out there, and really it sounds like you need to work on you and taking care of your kids for awhile rather than worrying about a relationship with someone else. As for friends, they won't come to you, you have to go out and find them. Join some kind of club or group that interests you. Again, so sorry and be strong.
Answer by shanlaree at 8:20 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
Don't just give up hon, run far, far away. No one deserves to be treated like this. Sounds like he uses your pregnancy mood swings to get action on the side. Not only that but he is emotionally abusive towards you and now he is laying his hands on you. It will never get better, only worse. The groundwork has been laid in your relationship and no amount of counseling will ever fix this. Sorry:(
Answer by shanlaree at 8:17 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
Answer by 405mom at 8:20 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
Answer by hmhmom at 8:12 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
Answer by nicjon at 8:15 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
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Answer by mommyofAurora at 8:22 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
Answer by 405mom at 8:23 PM on Oct. 25, 2010
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