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How is possible to calm down becuase i am angry very soon ,when my son make noise ?

My son always say no when i tell him go to bed ,or eat medicion.

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Nedy120

Asked by Nedy120 at 3:06 AM on Oct. 26, 2010 in Kids' Health

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  • just take a deep breath and remember that kids are kids, he'll say no, but YOU are the boss.
    nickellmomof2

    Answer by nickellmomof2 at 3:08 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • take and deep breathe and count to ten. how old is he? just take him to his room, and everytime he comes out, take him back. if he is suppose to take the medicin (sp) then let him know that if he doesnt take the medicin then he cant have dessert orcandy or whatever it is that he likes. gl.
    kmjsmommy12345

    Answer by kmjsmommy12345 at 3:17 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • For bedtime you might want to try the Supernanny technique that is similar to what is mentioned above. Go through your regular bedtime routine. Tell the child it is time for bed and that you will sit near the door. Then sit on the floor near the door with your back to the child. If he gets up simply put him back in bed. No talking. You might have to do it over and over. Stay calm and do not talk. If you do not sit in the room you can still do the same thing. Every time he comes out take him back. No talking and stay calm. GL!
    elizabr

    Answer by elizabr at 8:27 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • he's a kid... relax... pick your battles, and set up a routine so there is no chance for him to tell you no...
    asil

    Answer by asil at 7:16 PM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • take a deep breath blow out slow and.....remember that someday your Son will pick your nursing home (or choose to return the favor and care for you)
    MELRN

    Answer by MELRN at 7:30 PM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • i taught my son at a young age to say "mommys the boss" so when he tells me "no" i ask "who's the boss" he goes "mommy" so i tell him "as your boss you do what i say" i know probably sounds weird but its a method that i use and works
    acastle2

    Answer by acastle2 at 10:26 PM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • I don't understand the first part of the question, when he makes noise? However, as far as medicine goes...maybe you can pretend to be an airplane to make it go in?
    Peajewel

    Answer by Peajewel at 7:08 PM on Oct. 31, 2010

  • You're the adult. Even if the kid says no- that doesn't make it no. If you are getting too upset about the behaviour, remove yourself from the situation till you can calm down.
    ethans_momma06

    Answer by ethans_momma06 at 10:58 PM on Oct. 31, 2010

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