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What wrong with my 50 year old husband, he was never adventurous in the bedroom

Now he wants to try anal, add toys, and gels and creams.... what the H--- I am as kinky has the next house wife but this is definitely not my husband somebody switched his body... What do I do?

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Asked by Anonymous at 5:45 AM on Oct. 26, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Is he watching porn? Or he is having an affair. Or mid life crisis.  If you do not like some of the stuff he want to do. Say NO. Like I did.


    Answer by louise2 at 5:48 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • anal is a exit only in my book,there is nothing wrong with spicing it up but wow.Is he into porn?

    Answer by bucky77 at 5:59 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • I agree with Louise.

    maybe he saw something online that peaked his interest or a midlife crisis.
    maybe he just got bored and is attempting to spice things up to keep an interest. Kudos to him for making the effort.

    Answer by Zoeyis at 6:06 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • MID-LIFE CRISIS. For me I would be saying no to a few of those things and my husband knows that he wouldn't even be asking. He must be hearing someone talking or seeing something somewhere

    Answer by Moms_Angels1960 at 6:19 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • go with it, that's what you do. Maybe he was not so adventurous because he was too shy about admitting what he REALLY likes....

    Answer by samurai_chica at 8:39 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • Maybe hes bored and he just wants to spice things up. Nothing wrong with that.

    Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 8:40 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

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