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No invitations. How bad am i?

My dd bday party is this Saturday... Our invites where being made by bil. but we kept forgetting to give him party info/pic of dd for invite..
Soo... because of us it looks like there will be no invites sent out. I feel bad! She is turning 4. Her bday party is mainly family members & a few family friends we will call/ already know the info..

So how bad am I!! Cant believe Ive let the last month just slide by!


Asked by MommaTasha1003 at 9:31 AM on Oct. 26, 2010 in General Parenting

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Answers (8)
  • I have been known to just let my family and friends know when the party is.. no invitations.

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 9:38 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • honestly at 4 as long as she has a party and you make it fun she not going to care who/or rember who was there.....just enjoy the day, there are worse things to feel guilty over......

    Answer by cara124 at 9:33 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • If it's close friends and family, why do you need fancy invitations?

    Answer by ballewal at 9:33 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • So long as you celebrate within your own family unit it's acknowledged her birthday. You can call but really don’t expect them to come on such late notice because previous engagement of Halloween events with their own families. Just have fun.

    Answer by musicmom08 at 9:43 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • As long as you call people and invite them you should be ok. Don't go into a long explanation, but do say something like, we had a problem getting the invitations so I'm calling.

    Answer by SweetLuci at 9:54 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • Personally I think you need to STOP BEATING YOURSELF UP!

    Sometimes LIFE HAPPENS! She is a little girl.. She will have a great time with family and friends... AND PROBABLY WON'T THINK ANYTHING ABOUT IT..


    Answer by MAKEMYDAY101 at 10:13 AM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • I wouldn't worry too much about's no big sin....if it's important to you, just plan on doing better next time and then be determined to follow through....have fun with your daughter on her birthday!

    Answer by Anna92464 at 12:54 PM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • its not my dd im worried about.. I know at 4 she dont care about invites..
    Its the other people i guess..
    Most people know her party is this saturday.. She was born on halloween. :)

    Comment by MommaTasha1003 (original poster) at 10:33 AM on Oct. 26, 2010