Me and my husband will be married 7 years In April. Lately i've been doing the "what ifs" in my head. What if there is someone more compatible out there for me?, what if i'm staying with him because i think i love him but thats only because i haven't found true love?, What if there is something better out there? etc.
My marriage isn't the greatest. We don't fight but we don't talk either. The only things we do together are things with our son unless it is our anniversary and then sometimes i feel like we only do that because it is expected. We each typically just do our own thing so while i don't have it as bad as others whos husbands either ignore them, scream at them etc. I can't help but wonder if we only stay together because it is comfortable. I talked to my mom and an older friend of mine and both said that i just have the "7 year itch".
what is that supposed to mean? Do all ladies have these worries?
Answer by maxsmom11807 at 11:49 AM on Oct. 26, 2010
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Answer by bethany169 at 12:10 PM on Oct. 26, 2010
I find believe being comfortable in a marriage says a lot. Means Trust.
Start making plans for the 7-year marriage anniversary by going away for a few days just the two of you to rekindle those feeling again. ;-)
Answer by musicmom08 at 12:47 PM on Oct. 26, 2010