I somehwat agree with previous post, but I also respect people's wishes to be abstinent prior to being married. I assume that since you designate him as "bad" you have something to compare it to? Sex is something that takes time to perfect, as well as talking about likes/dislikes. Thankfully my husband and I have been able to be very open about the topic from the beginning, and we're still learning new things about one another. You just have to be able to talk about it openly, and honestly. Don't say "you're bad in bed"... obviously. Just say, I really like it when you do this, or i'm not really into that... or how about we try this... you get the idea. For most marriages sex is a big deal, so it's just as much your responsibility to bring it to the table, because the longer you don't say anything... then the more ignorant he is to how you feel. I hope it all works out for you an good luck.
at 5:31 PM on Oct. 26, 2010