My dh of almost 20 years has not cheated (that I know of) but he has lied to me in the past. Because of this I don't trust him and I tell him and he doesn't care about it. It's some of his actions that get me so confuse for example; He is currently at a golf tournament which he has already paid for months ago. Yesterday I noticed he spent $40 at Walmart and I asked him what could he possibly spend $40 on since I ALWAYS give him lunch to take. He said he got cash back, I said okay and left it at that. Today the day of the tournament I noticed that he spent $76 at a grocery store which most likely was cash back again. Does beer really cost that much? My mind is all over the place. What would you think of this? I hate having to question him about his spending but I'm the one in charge of balancing the checkbook and I wonder why does he need to spend money on other than gas and maybe a beverage here and there but $100?Answer Question
Answer by CarriePM at 9:02 PM on Oct. 26, 2010
Answer by Melbornj at 9:18 PM on Oct. 26, 2010
$100 in two days that has to be question regardless of who is in control of the accounts. My hubby knows better to spend that much money without first saying i am most likely gonna spend this. We are both really tight with our money and he knows if he doesn't have a good reason why he spent this much on this this and this then I would have a fit and his ass would be on a cash only plan. MY CONTROL...... :~) Call the places and tell them you want a copy of the receipt, or ask your hubby for the receipt.
Answer by raemommy at 9:23 PM on Oct. 26, 2010
Answer by fallmommy at 9:40 PM on Oct. 26, 2010
Answer by depressedmom65 at 9:13 AM on Oct. 28, 2010