I have been living with SO for months. He has lied to me three times in those months one of them was a MAJOR lie but I was really trying to work it out. The kids are all his not mine and their mother only sees them maybe 6 hours every 6 weeks (her decision) he works second shift & to put it nicely his kids are all assholes, no respect no discipline and no regard to authority. When I first met SO within that week he had his kids taken away by DFCS for leaving them alone while he worked the older two were fighting neighbor called cops. When the cops got her the place was a mess (imagine HOARDERS). SO claims it was cause no one was here to help with kids, I do it all with very little help from him or kids. I am attached to kids as they are attached to me but I don't feel like this is the relationship I deserve or at this point need. When I mention leaving they are all like no please don't go but nothing changes. How can I leave?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:58 PM on Oct. 26, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by NEMommaOf3 at 1:41 PM on Oct. 27, 2010
Answer by Shelii at 10:00 PM on Oct. 26, 2010
Answer by chica1965 at 10:02 PM on Oct. 26, 2010
Answer by Adelicious at 10:04 PM on Oct. 26, 2010