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Does anybody else feel like sex is a lost cause?

okay so i know we're women and we're not suppose to be concerned about when the next time we have sex with our men is, but my husband and i havent had sex in 5 weeks. come on everybody's got needs, and i Wanna Have Sex Too! is anybody else feeling a little low on the sex pole?

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Asked by LisaLand33 at 10:42 PM on Oct. 26, 2010 in Relationships

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  • hasnt been that long for me only like a week or 2 and i wanted it last night so i went potty then said shit...i started my im hating life right now lol.

    Answer by Shelii at 10:45 PM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • I haven't had sex for over 5 months, and I am fine with it, but if you want to do it. Then talk to him, you have needs too, and he should respect and appreciate it.


    Answer by AlyssaJones at 10:46 PM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • 5weeks?? how are you serviving with no sex for that long? i would be going nuts. my hubby didn't want to have sex cos i am pregnant and he was a lil weirded out by it, in the end i had to jump him and tell him to get a grip or i will go looking somewhere else.

    Answer by otoole at 10:47 PM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • It's been 2 weeks since I last got any. I'm not actively seeking it though, so sick of boring sex I could puke. It's not that I don't make an effort either, 2 people have to do that! I've taken up masturbating so it's not complete hell for me.

    Answer by Nanixh at 10:57 PM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • I have waited ten years lost weight got a job and started school now I am leaving this relationship keep working on it.

    Answer by pinkdragon36 at 11:56 PM on Oct. 26, 2010

  • Why aren't women supposed to be concerned with it? My husband hasn't had sex with me in over a year, so I definitely feel for you with how frustrating it is and all that. Everyone has needs, like you said.

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 12:01 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • My husband probably feels it more than I do, but I know where you are coming from.

    Answer by Izsarejman at 1:12 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • my SO and i recently went through a rough patch like that...i think alot had to do with his stress level, worrying about hurting me (i've had lots of surgeries), and possibly being a bit turned off by my baldness (chemo made my hair fall out). i just kept reminding him how attracted to him i was and how i didnt just want sex, i wanted sex with HIM....we've had sex 5 times in the last 4 days ;)

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 2:22 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • 5 weeks is a long time without it the only time i did that when i was in a relationship was when i was with a guy in the military other then that i had my needs met

    Answer by acastle2 at 9:31 PM on Oct. 27, 2010

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