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How would you handle this? ( a hard on question) thx adult content

What do you do if your dh has a semi hard on when you are on top then your doing doggie style then it gets very hard I don't get it....aarrgg
I don't want to say anything even though I do make a small comment he's like oh I guess bc I am tired or out of shape but he so sweet he waits for me to get mine then he'll finish up.

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:49 AM on Oct. 27, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Simple means that he is working himself up and doesn't start out fully aroused would be my guess.

    Answer by Melbornj at 12:54 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • Mine does the same thing I don't take offense to it he just likes one position more than another. Like I prefer missionary over doggie style. I just feel different in different positions.

    Answer by MelSwim7 at 12:55 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • Maybe it feels better for him doggie style. I wouldn't read too much into it.

    Answer by musicpisces at 12:56 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • It all feels different depending on what position you are both in. With you being on top, things are going to be more open, just from being spread like so. However, in doggy, things might tighten up a bit creating a better "squeezing" feeling for him. Try lots of different positions, keep it fun and experiment. Don't analyze too much- I know that's hard for us females!

    Answer by Sharell8710 at 1:01 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • Did you know studies show a man is never harder than right after oral just make sure he doesnt pop before u jump on it ;)

    Answer by 405mom at 1:01 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • my hubby always so that he likes it better doggie style some days more then he does others. I think its because they are more in control and it feels different.

    Answer by SAHM2gabeshelby at 1:02 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • He can get it deeper doggie style so it is funner that way, for him

    Answer by alotleft2do at 1:15 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • oh and how would I handle the situation? I would be more then happy...alot of women take for granted their sex lives, I for one wouldn't mind one...

    Answer by alotleft2do at 1:17 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • It's called "gravity".

    Answer by Fistandantalus at 7:33 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • He may need a health check-up from the doctor. High Blood pressure can wreck havoc with men's erections.

    Answer by isabellalecour at 11:23 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

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