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should I talk with his mother or my husband.

My 15yr stepson lives with me,and I found xxx dvd that he has. This is not the time.

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Asked by dannies4 at 9:59 AM on Oct. 27, 2010 in Teens (13-17)

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  • Leave it alone.......

    Answer by older at 10:01 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • I think you should talk with your husband and have him say something to his mother as well

    Answer by MelSwim7 at 10:02 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • his dad. always defer step-issues to their biological parent.

    Answer by dullscissors at 10:02 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • If they are in your and your husbands home then you need to talk to your husband. If your husband dosnt see a problem with it then tell him that you do not want them in your home and that he can take them to his mothers house.

    Answer by Shelii at 10:03 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • even with us having a good relationship.

    Comment by dannies4 (original poster) at 10:03 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • your husband

    Answer by tootoobusy at 10:04 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • Let his father talk to him.

    Answer by musicmom08 at 10:04 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • yeah in my and I think my husband my just see it as he's a boy,but I have other children in the home. 3GIRLS TEENS AND A 10YR I don't want it in my home. His mother and I have resolve other issue without my hubby

    Comment by dannies4 (original poster) at 10:06 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • I understand the leave it alone comment. I would actually talk to the child. It is perfectly normal for him to be courious. You have to let him know if his having it in your home is acceptable to you. With my son it was not. He has two younger sisters and I explained why it was not acceptable. If you have a reasonable explanation why he should not have them tell him. Otherwise I agree...Leave it alone... By the way I do think there are reasons you would feel you have to do something... Just pick your fights. With a 15 year old there will be MANY!

    Answer by KISS1224 at 10:07 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • your husband......this is about the age young boys start getting couse about stuff just have hubby talk to him

    Answer by cara124 at 10:07 AM on Oct. 27, 2010

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