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what would you do if your husband cheated on you at your own home in your own bed?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 12:21 PM on Oct. 30, 2008 in Relationships

Answers (29)
  • Divorce him! That shows a major lack nof respect!!
    amydh

    Answer by amydh at 12:23 PM on Oct. 30, 2008

  • I would be furious! There's no telling exactly what I would do but it wouldn't be pretty.
    mrswright1170

    Answer by mrswright1170 at 12:27 PM on Oct. 30, 2008

  • My FIL did that to my MIL..They are still together.
    I am not sure how I would handle that?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:27 PM on Oct. 30, 2008

  • Though it would be very difficult, I would have to leave him. I would never be able to trust him again and I would wonder if everything in the marriage was a lie. To me trust is the most important part of a marriage. You may not give it to many people but when you give it to your partner it is sacred. I could never be with someone who didn't honor that.
    Su-Z-Q

    Answer by Su-Z-Q at 12:27 PM on Oct. 30, 2008

  • I would have a tough time with any cheating but I'd always feel like she was in the room with me from then on I think, even if I decided to try to make it work.
    Having been on the other side and cheated in my home, I ended up having to move, I wasn't comfortable there anymore once I decided that I didn't want to lose my family. Only thing that I would've liked better than moving was to burn that house down (we own it) so I never had to walk back in it again.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:30 PM on Oct. 30, 2008

  • get rid of the bed and the husband
    Lynette

    Answer by Lynette at 12:30 PM on Oct. 30, 2008

  • my husband did that and i first ripped up the bed and threw it in the garbage along with him!
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 12:30 PM on Oct. 30, 2008

  • Beat him. Then leave him.
    lilbit837

    Answer by lilbit837 at 12:30 PM on Oct. 30, 2008

  • what anon 1130 said.
    chyna_doll

    Answer by chyna_doll at 12:33 PM on Oct. 30, 2008

  • Have you ever watched the movie (The Burning Bed with Farah Facett).This maybe a little drastic,but it's a thought.
    Val504

    Answer by Val504 at 12:34 PM on Oct. 30, 2008

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