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Does your man still find you sexy after having kids? Do you still feel sexy after having kids?

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Asked by navajomama7 at 11:09 PM on Oct. 27, 2010 in Relationships

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  • yeah, thank god. After 10 years and seeing my have a kid 3 weeks ago and he's still chasing after me. He's having a hard time waiting this six week period. We are an at least once a week sex couple. We keep the spice alive after 10 years. woooo hoooo

    Answer by CCMami at 11:11 PM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • yes.

    Answer by kerp1960 at 11:12 PM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • He says I'm sexy. I don't usually feel it though. I do try to "keep myself up". I like to look nice. But in the bedroom, I'm still missing my drive... and I just don't feel as "cute".

    Answer by Reenieredhead at 11:13 PM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • it took a while, but yes! I have dropped many pant sizes and got most of my energy back lol.

    Answer by Owl_Feather at 11:14 PM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • This sounds weird but I don't feel sexy but I am more comfortable when it comes to sex. Sometimes I hate myself for not taking care of belly, but what can I do now:/

    Answer by baby-cakes at 11:19 PM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • my ex husband always complained about my body after having my first so eventhough i got back down to a size 5 and was in excellent shape (running 25 miles a week). then i did not feel sexy at all. my SO now has always found me very attractive even when i was a size 13 after having my second son and even after i got tons of scars and lost all my hair from having cancer. i still dont feel as sexy as i did when my SO and i first got together (before baby #2 and cancer) but i certainly feel sexier than i ever did with my ex because my SO adores my body so much and makes me love myself the way i am.

    Answer by LoriaAnn at 11:25 PM on Oct. 27, 2010

  • yes my DH finds me sexy and irresistible...however sometimes I do not feel the same =)


    Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 12:09 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • Yes he did and yes I do.

    Answer by Shines3 at 12:09 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • Yes, he does.
    I, however, do not.

    I do my best to not let that stop the good times, though.
    With a toddler, heaven knows they're few and far between enough, lol.

    Answer by LadyCash at 12:17 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • DH is after me even when he's asleep! LOL! He still thinks I'm sexy after almost 12 years and three kids. Even with my 2 c-section scars and my fat gut. I'm not too thrilled with what I look like, but my medication makes it almost impossible to lose weight. Oh well, when I gain weight my already big breasts get bigger, so I'm a DD now and he loves them! Good man to make a negative into a positive! LOL I feel sexy every now and then, but I'm really too busy chasing after our 16 month old to worry too much about it.

    Answer by Mrs.B3 at 12:23 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

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