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How do you turn down someone who asks you out?

I don't want to hurt his feelings and he's nice but not someone that I'm interested in.


Asked by Shines3 at 12:27 AM on Oct. 28, 2010 in Relationships

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  • I would just tell him you just don't have the time right now that you have alot going on. At least that way it wouldn't come off to him that you didn't at all consider it.

    Answer by waitin4u at 12:32 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • Just tell him that, honesty is the best policy.
    Or go out and make it very clear it is just as frends, if he is that nice.

    Answer by Indyk at 12:30 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • Well, I'm married, but if I were asked I'd just say, "sorry, but no thank you." If they get rude, then that's their problem. I know it's not the same thing, but I've been out with friends for a bachelorette party & been asked to dance and the guys got really ugly when I said, "no thank you." Some people don't respond well to honesty, but it's better than saying, "yeah I'll call you" knowing you're not going to, IMO!

    Answer by Mrs.B3 at 12:32 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • Honesty is always the best policy. Just tell him that you are not interested and don't want to waste his time or yours.

    Answer by m-avi at 12:36 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • Tell him that you are not ready to date if you are not seeing someone already. If you go out with him and are not interested then you are sending him mixed messages if you tell him on a date.

    Answer by Cheveyo1 at 12:37 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • No thank you, but thanks for the offer.


    Answer by beeky at 12:49 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • be honest

    Answer by Paigesmommy78 at 12:58 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • Politely and honestly.

    Answer by katiPeas at 4:08 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • Just be honest. I think that is the best policy. I am sure you would want someone to be honest with you. !

    Answer by Luisa621 at 6:02 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • Be honest and tell him how you feel GL

    Answer by Truelove77 at 9:13 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

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