I have a very good job. DH earns a lot less than me and he's managed to accumulate a lot of unnecessary debt. As a result we are struggling. My kids are growing out of their clothes, we can't afford even second hand clothes. We struggle to feed everybody. We can't even afford proper medical care for them. I'm at my wits end. I can easily support the kids and me without DH and his frivalous spending habits, which he refuses to change or see a counsellor for. Would you divorce him to save your kids from being neglected? Is emotional wellbeing more important than physical?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:02 AM on Oct. 28, 2010 in Relationships
Financial issues is one of the most common reason for divorce.. In this case, if you can not afford the minimum for your kids, he needs to understand that the marriage is in danger, and he must change. I would separate expenses and have him pay part of the bills, before $$ goes to something else....
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