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How do you stop........

accusing your husband of cheating if you feel deep down inside that he is or did and he keeps denying it! But you love him and really want things to work out for the two of you.

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Asked by Darla47 at 8:28 AM on Oct. 28, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Gosh, this is a tough one. It's really hard to be in a relationship with someone you can't trust. The best thing you can do is let it go and stop accusing him, but in the background be collecting solid proof.

    Answer by lowencope at 8:30 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • If you really and truly want to work it out, then you have got to find a way to forgive him, even if only in your heart and mind. You have to find a way to let go and find peace. I wish you luck.

    Answer by QueenMomma2023 at 8:48 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • well I'd get hard proof before accusing anyone of anything. Thats slander, otherwise.

    Answer by Zoeyis at 8:54 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • Find proof or try to let him know its hurting you that you think he is cheating and you need him to come clean and stop playing games GL

    Answer by Truelove77 at 8:59 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • I'm sorry you are in this situation. Trust is difficult to regain once it is lost. If you really love him and want to stay in the marriage, then stop accusing him. He has denied it so he still wants to be in the marriage. If you look hard enough, you will always find something and it may not be what you want to here. There are many marriages where wives know what is going on but chose to ignore it.

    Answer by depressedmom65 at 9:00 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • never had tht prob, mine never does anytrhing except work without us

    Answer by JoLee12345 at 9:21 AM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • If you love him and want the relationship to work then you must let go of your insecurities. If he is cheating you will find out but you cannot run yourself crazy with it...

    Answer by mom2mybabes at 12:43 PM on Oct. 28, 2010

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