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Question about friend invitations...

Do you accept the CM "canned" invites, or do you only accept personalized ones?

I have been spammed WAY too many times, and only accept personalized invitations.


Asked by rkoloms at 3:50 PM on Oct. 28, 2010 in About CafeMom

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Answers (5)
  • i accept them if i can look at their page and see what question we both answered. Basically i want to figure out what they think we have in common. You and I ar friends on here i think. I dont chat with many 'friends" on here but I like to see recipes, or other questions where we may have similar beliefs.

    Answer by ria7 at 3:53 PM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • I check the page to see what we have in common and then I might accept.

    Answer by ZandCsmom1968 at 3:57 PM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • If I get an invite and can't see what we might have in common, I don't respond. I need details.

    Answer by 69humblepie at 11:49 PM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • I accept any invites. If they get spammy I delete them. That has only happened a few times in almost 31/2 years and I can't think of any since the default invited started. My profile is open so it's no big either way. I get a dozen or so a week. With the canned invites I just accept them. With personalized invites I try to take the time to respond back and thank them.

    Answer by Liansmommie at 4:22 PM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • I check out the person's profile first whether it's a canned invite or not. Sometimes they use the "personalized" invite for everyone they friend.

    Answer by HotMama330 at 4:05 PM on Oct. 29, 2010