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how soon is too soon

i split from my ex about a month ago. i hadnt been happy for a long time,now im dating and found an awesome guy. i dont want to ruch things i just know i want babies with him soon. i know i sound crazy. how soon is too soon. its already going to be a slap in the face to my ex. but its going to happen... id atleast like to be preg by the end of 2011

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Asked by 2boysmommy.js at 10:42 PM on Oct. 28, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • How long have you know this awesome guy? Does she feel as you do on the kids subject? These are MAJOR factor here! lol.

    Answer by But_Mommie at 10:49 PM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • ive known him about 6 months but just now am "dating" him. yeah he wants kids soon he wants everything i want. hes awesome to the kids i alrady have. in a way hes too perfect

    Comment by 2boysmommy.js (original poster) at 10:54 PM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • Wait until you guys have decided to spend your lives together (and you have at least some promise from him that he wants this, even if it's not a ring or a piece of paper). Kids are such a permanent connection to someone. Wait until the initial high of meeting someone new wears off, at least, and the real you and he come out.

    Answer by musicpisces at 10:55 PM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • Not to be mean, but too good to be true often is.

    Answer by musicpisces at 10:55 PM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • lol no he def has his flaws its just he wants the same things i do, mostly, and he told me those things before i told him what i wanted. and he knows my whole sorrid past, the deal with my crazy ex. and hes stood by me through it all

    Comment by 2boysmommy.js (original poster) at 10:57 PM on Oct. 28, 2010

  • Yeah....way too soon. Slow down, you just met the guy. Make sure it will last.

    Answer by michelle121003 at 9:27 AM on Oct. 29, 2010

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