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do you ever look up your ex's on myspace and/or facebook to see what they are up to?

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Asked by Anonymous at 8:01 PM on Oct. 29, 2010 in Relationships

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  • this is exactly why i have never opened a facebook or myspace account -- i hear all this heartache, drama and actual pain from doign so -- i am too weak and wouldnt be abel to stand it lol. also i cut off all thoguhts of exes so i actually wouldnt even if i had it i guess. if people are nto functional in my life and heart, and were mean or abusive or neglectful, they are gone.
    silverelf

    Answer by silverelf at 8:03 PM on Oct. 29, 2010

  • no
    I have a life of my own that I am happy with. Exes are exes for a reason. I've moved on.
    I love my Facebook account. I have reconnected with so many old friends. I have never once felt the need to check out an ex. They are not a part of my life for a reason.
    layh41407

    Answer by layh41407 at 8:08 PM on Oct. 29, 2010

  • I will message my x husband on my space occassionally just to check on him cuz since we divorced he had let his life get out of control but i still like to make sure he is ok
    ahsweetness

    Answer by ahsweetness at 8:17 PM on Oct. 29, 2010

  • Nah, I already know from word of mouth that they're not doing anything worthy with their lives. I suppose if I wanted something to laugh at I would.
    Nanixh

    Answer by Nanixh at 8:18 PM on Oct. 29, 2010

  • I don't have myspace but I am friends with a few of my exes on facebook and their wives. No drama, just friends.
    jeniprit74

    Answer by jeniprit74 at 8:53 PM on Oct. 29, 2010

  • My ex is on my facebook and I dont need to look at it. I already know what he's up to. We are very good friends. We talk daily.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 8:55 PM on Oct. 29, 2010

  • I do, and I just have to laugh at what it is my ex husband is currently seeking and then it ticks me off he will fly across the country to visit this person yet he won't drive 4 hours to see our kids
    alotleft2do

    Answer by alotleft2do at 9:11 PM on Oct. 29, 2010

  • I never did until recently because he was suggested as a friend and boy did I dodge a bullet. :)
    buzymamaof3

    Answer by buzymamaof3 at 9:19 PM on Oct. 29, 2010

  • I don't look them up, but we're all still friends on there and we still get along great if we run into each other. I kind of like knowing how anyone from my past that I cared about is doing, but I don't like scan their profiles and stuff. If I happen to notice an update or that their birthday is coming up, I'll drop them a short message or something. Otherwise, I don't really pay much attention to their pages.
    Mrs.BAT

    Answer by Mrs.BAT at 9:31 PM on Oct. 29, 2010

  • At first, but then I stopped. No point to it.

    MiBabysMama

    Answer by MiBabysMama at 10:14 PM on Oct. 29, 2010

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