The night before our wedding my husband groomsmen took him to a strip club. I was ok with that but I asked him not to get drunk and not to get a lap dance, other than that have a good time. Well about an hour before our wedding my bil tells me that he had gotten smashed AND had gotten a lap dance. I feel so betrayed and feel like he cheated on me. I have tried to talk to him about it but he just seems to ignore me. Every time I think about our wedding I remember what he did and it kills me inside. What do I do? Do I leave it in the past? Forgive and forget? Please NO BASHING... I just want some advice... I understand everyones relationships are different, but the two things I asked him not to do he did and he did both. We have been married a little over a year but it still hurts.
Asked by Anonymous at 11:10 PM on Oct. 30, 2008 in Relationships
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