I think you should sit down and go over your daily schedule and see if there are ways you can tweak the schedule a bit and create a place for 'me' time-- maybe you could make it for early in the morning before everyone gets up, or at night when everyone is asleep.
For me, I have 'me' time M-F from 7:45am to 10:45 am when all 3 of my kids are in school- although I am generally working or cleaning house and trying to get things done then. Sometimes I will have my "me" time at night, after the kids and hubs are in bed. The house is quiet, and I am free to do crafts, read, watch tv or take a nice long uninterrupted soak in the tub!
On weekends if I make plans to go out with my sis, or want some 'me' time my hubs is cool with it and he is good about taking charge of the house and kids while I go do my thing.
at 5:30 PM on Oct. 30, 2010