I've been with my boyfriend since May 2004. Lately I've been feeling like we should be at a different point in our relationship. We dont live together, and my parents cant stand him. My boyfriend and I love eachother, and we want to make a life together. Last week, we talked about our future. I dont know exactly how it happened, but somehow we decided to get married on our 5yr anniversary. We're not going to have a wedding or anything like that. We're just going to go to a courthouse and have a civil ceremony. We're also not going to be living together. Also, we're not going to tell anyone. Its going to be our little secret for a while. I'm not going to be changing my name for a while, either. I know logically in my head that this is possibly one of the stuidest things I have ever even considered. In my heart, I think I'm caught up in the "romance" of the whole idea. What do you think? Please, be nice..... Thanks!!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 12:46 AM on Oct. 31, 2008 in Relationships
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Answer by ELC at 11:59 AM on Oct. 31, 2008
was the "secret" marriage his idea? what's the point if you two aren't even living together? i don't think going behind your family's back and doing things is going to help your bf's reputation with them. marriage is not something you just do. marriage involves a lot of things, including maturity and it doesn't seem like you have as much as you should. living with your parents is hard, i know that, but just going to get married for the heck of it isn't a great idea. if you want to get married, do it how you want to, but it doesn't sound like you really want it to be like this.
Answer by MaMaLaLa369 at 1:11 PM on Oct. 31, 2008
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