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what should i do to not worry about having a miscarriage

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Asked by redmisses at 8:13 PM on Oct. 30, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • stay off the internet! it will fill your mind with horrible thoughts!

    Answer by pookipoo at 8:14 PM on Oct. 30, 2010

  • Positives thoughts and the will of God will be done, if it is in it for you to carry this baby to term if not there is nothing you can do and worrying might even cause it.

    Answer by older at 8:15 PM on Oct. 30, 2010

  • Eat healthy, take care of yourself, follow your Dr's advice, relax and enjoy the pregnancy. Think positive!! I wish you all the best!

    Answer by elizabr at 8:16 PM on Oct. 30, 2010

  • have postive thoughts.


    Answer by LoriAnn87 at 8:17 PM on Oct. 30, 2010

  • and stay around those who are very support in your life.


    Answer by LoriAnn87 at 8:17 PM on Oct. 30, 2010

  • thank you all i try to stay positive it just soooo hard

    Comment by redmisses (original poster) at 8:19 PM on Oct. 30, 2010

  • Do you have a reason to believe you will miscarry?

    Truthfully  their is nothing you can do. If you are going to have one you will. Not all pregnancies are meant to be.


    Answer by louise2 at 8:23 PM on Oct. 30, 2010

  • Trust your self to take care of you and your baby. Eat well, sleep plenty, and take a birthing class. This will introduce you to other moms that you can hopefully find some support in. Also the La Leech league, especially if you are planning on breastfeeding. See you doctor as scheduled, take your prenatal vitamins. And do you best to relax. Worry is like a rocking chair, you do a lot of work but get no were.

    Answer by DevilInPigtails at 8:37 PM on Oct. 30, 2010

  • @louise2 well this is my third pegnancy and the first two were not successful. i had a really hard time dealing with both of those losses i really want a baby but i am sooooo scared that this one wont havea good turn out either... i am a lupus and a dialysis patient so i know that i am very high risk and i am taking a big chance

    Comment by redmisses (original poster) at 9:15 PM on Oct. 30, 2010

  • I know it is so hard to lose your baby, no matter how far along you are. Just remember as long as you are doing everything you can to keep you and your baby healthy then you are doing everything right. It is NEVER your fault.

    Keep positive thoughts... positive thoughts can change everything :) and yes, i agree, stay off of the internet...

    Answer by BraythansMom at 10:49 PM on Oct. 30, 2010

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