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Is it wrong 2 get pregnant on purpose w/out talkin w/ur so?

My husband and I have 2 children and I asked him to consider one last child and he said NO w/out considering my feelings towards it. Now he says he's getting a vesectomy in a few months. Wud it be selfish to stop my bc and try to get pregnant b4 his vecetomy?


Asked by PrOuD_MaMa_2 at 1:25 AM on Nov. 1, 2010 in Trying to Conceive

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Answers (12)
  • It's wrong and you two need to discuss this more.

    Answer by Izsarejman at 1:47 AM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • Absolutely wrong, not much else to say it can all be summed up in that.

    Answer by Melbornj at 1:27 AM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • Yes, it is wrong. It sounds like neither of you are considering the other's feelings.

    Answer by montanagal2005 at 1:31 AM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • Kinda wondering WHY you'd want another child with someone who doesnt consider your feelings in important choices such as this.

    Answer by Anonymous at 1:36 AM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • Yes it is wrong. I'm sorry he won't consider having another child.

    Answer by twinmama2five at 1:40 AM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • congrats, hope that works out for both of you

    Answer by meagan678 at 2:28 AM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • Yay!! I'm glad that worked out at least. It's always nice to keep the option open when you're not sure. I hope all works out well for you! =)

    Answer by musicpisces at 3:40 AM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • Hope it works out the way you both want it to. You did the right thing. Best wishes

    Answer by elizabr at 8:39 AM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • Glad he's considering, I personally would try to get preggo while the getting was good!!

    Answer by mom2priceboys at 10:59 AM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • After reading ur comments it really got me thinking I'm jus as bad if i'm not considering his feelings either, so we sat down and talked it over and now I have a maybe!!! So we're holding off on the vesectomy!! Thanx guys!!!

    Comment by PrOuD_MaMa_2 (original poster) at 1:47 AM on Nov. 1, 2010