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What would you do?

Pretend you just found out your DH of oh say 15 yrs had a felony on his record for a non-violent, non-sexual related crime...from when he was 18? What would your reaction be. This is just a "what if" question, so no fair saying I would never not know this about my DH. Play fair!

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salexander

Asked by salexander at 1:29 PM on Nov. 1, 2010 in Just for Fun

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Answers (15)
  • If he hadn't done anything close to that before. I don't think I would care because he would have showed that he had changed into a better man. Now if he had done things that are similar that would be a different story and there would be some serious discussions to have.
    DevilInPigtails

    Answer by DevilInPigtails at 1:31 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • that was something from his past, as long as it wasn't violent or sexual i wouldn't really care
    josiesmommy00

    Answer by josiesmommy00 at 1:32 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • that's weird! its so unlike you,my husband
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 1:32 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • I Would not care. Its from the past.
    colepip2

    Answer by colepip2 at 1:37 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • I would talk to him about it and probably let it go. We all make mistakes when we're young. But that's why I run background checks!
    onemellowmom

    Answer by onemellowmom at 1:39 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • Be really pissed that he hadn't been honest and told me.
    ballewal

    Answer by ballewal at 1:39 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • i guess i wouldnt care. i have known him for 15 years and he's proven that he has changed. i would want to know what the story behind it is though.
    americansugar80

    Answer by americansugar80 at 1:39 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • I honestly wouldn't care. It was over 10 years ago.
    _Tam_

    Answer by _Tam_ at 1:40 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • I wouldn't care. I might wonder why it had never come up before but it wouldn't be a big deal that it hadn't.
    riotgrrl

    Answer by riotgrrl at 1:42 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • I would be curious what it was for, and why he did not mention it.
    But if it were no big deal I might tease him if he did not know I knew. :)
    Andriya

    Answer by Andriya at 1:48 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

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