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if cheating or not

my husband ing has been texting his so called friend all he tells me is that there friends and hes known her for a long time hes been rude to me if i ask when he leaves the house and come back home were have you been the only answer i get is here and there.and h has moved out and he want tell me were hes living at i beilive he is cheating not for sure but i just have feelings that i dont like is attitude toward me is he no longer loves me after 13 yrs and we have children i cant process all of this

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 7:31 PM on Nov. 1, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (16)
  • Go with your gut feeling, a woman's intuition is rarely wrong.
    shanlaree

    Answer by shanlaree at 7:33 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • he moved out? Did I get that right? If so that I think you guys are having proplmens or he really doesnt love you anymore and wants to break it off. Why else would he move out?
    LittleBirdFly

    Answer by LittleBirdFly at 7:35 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • If he moved out and doesn't want to tell you where he lives, I'd say that's a pretty good sign he doesn't want to be with you anymore... I'm sorry.
    Anouck

    Answer by Anouck at 7:39 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • go with ur feelings we know when something isnt right
    twimommy

    Answer by twimommy at 7:39 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • I would suggest you get a lawyer and ensure your kids are taken care of, evaluate your assets and be prepared to be on your own... just in case.
    tortkey

    Answer by tortkey at 7:40 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • If he moved out of our house and will not tell you where he lives, it may be time to speak with a divorce lawyer.
    DeeDee323

    Answer by DeeDee323 at 7:51 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • Shanlaree is correct. Go with what you feel.
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 7:54 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • I would say he is cheating and I would also suggest a divorce lawyer
    gratefulangel77

    Answer by gratefulangel77 at 7:54 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • I agree if he moved out and won't tell you where then its time to get a lawyer and be prepared just in case. I'm sorry this is happening to you.
    countrygirl06

    Answer by countrygirl06 at 8:24 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

  • So you guys are married but don't live together?
    gulfcoastmom4

    Answer by gulfcoastmom4 at 8:24 PM on Nov. 1, 2010

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