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why do i always feel like this??

why do i always wake up in the morning with a bad attitude and start arguing with my husband -- is like every morning is world war 2 -- for the most part i wake up upset at my husband for no reason is this normal???

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Asked by Anonymous at 4:55 AM on Nov. 2, 2010 in Relationships

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  • no its not normal. but i DO know people who just are NOT morning people. and a world war arises if they speak to anyone the first 3 hours of their day. no matter what they do, it just happens. so they try to ignore everyone in the am hours. i dont know what they call it, but its just them i guess. maybe ur like that too, is it only ur husband ur mad at or r u mad at the world? i love mornings, i hate lonely insomniac nights :(

    Answer by fefe87 at 5:22 AM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • I normally wake up with a panic attack... but my mom, for example, she wakes up feeling fine and goes off merrily to make her coffee... everyone is different I guess.

    Answer by Gremlyn1980 at 5:32 AM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • Do you get enough sleep at night? If I do not get enough sleep I am grumpy too.

    Answer by louise2 at 5:35 AM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • Have you thought about making a Doctors appointment and going and speaking this out to them. This sounds pretty serious that i think you should. Like i don't think that it's just something that is gonna go away. Like this morning i am pissed off at my SS and my DH. I wasn't yesterday morning they were just both very disrespectful last night and woke me up from a dead sleep and I HATE going to bed pisses off much less pissed off, but they know there gonna have a list of shit to do for the next 3-4 days, when i get mad i clean and so does the rest of the house.

    Answer by raemommy at 5:54 AM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • Not enough sleep

    Answer by nurse4babies at 5:59 AM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • Is it just a recent thing? Maybe you've been having bad dreams/ not getting enough sleep. Sometimes I have dreams that my husband cheated on me and I wake up pissed! LOL. But then I realize it was a dream and everything is fine.

    Or maybe you just spend too much time together and he's getting on your nerves for no reason?

    Answer by fireeyes81 at 6:19 AM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • not normal no ..

    Answer by san78 at 7:12 AM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • I wouldn't say its normal, but then every one is different.

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 8:09 AM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • Sounds like depression.
    You could resent him for some reason or another that you might've initially repressed. Could be a bad dream that you're having that you might not remember consciously. I think though that it's either resentment or depression.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 9:49 AM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • Sounds like depression to me too. What about the rest of the day? Do you still feel like this?

    Answer by Mme.Langley at 2:49 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

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