Welcome to the world of 4-year-olds! LOL!
At 4, children aren't really big decision-makers, so no need to worry.
What you CAN do, though, is given them opportunities to "practice" by offering them a choice between 2 or (at max.) 3 items.
For example, I ask my 4-year-old "Do you want PBJ or grilled cheese for lunch?" or "Do you want to wear the red or the white shirt?" Even "do you want to get a bath before or after you clean your room?"
Simple choices like those help them make the bigger decisions later on.
at 11:49 AM on Nov. 2, 2010