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why does my 6 year old daughter misbehave when i leave the house?

she always wont to get into things when i leave that she knows is wrong.when i ask her about it she lies.her daddy just sits on the couch watchin tv while they misbehave i have to be the enforcer

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andream318

Asked by andream318 at 11:44 AM on Nov. 2, 2010 in School-Age Kids (5-8)

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  • because her dad isn't watching her and she CAN... just kids being kids without discipline when you are away.. when the cat is away, the mice will play lol!!
    maxsmom11807

    Answer by maxsmom11807 at 11:50 AM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • sounds like as if she is seeking attention.who is watching her when u leave the house? abd r u sure that she gets looked after? not trying to accuse anybody off doing something bad to her but mostly kids misbehave if something is seriously wrong and they r to scared to talk about it.maybe u should have a mother daughter day with her and trying to find out what ever u can find out and grab the problem by its tail
    kimylina

    Answer by kimylina at 11:53 AM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • if youre the only person who disciplines her then shes learned that when you arent there she can misbehave because theres no one to discipline her
    pookipoo

    Answer by pookipoo at 11:56 AM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • Sounds to me like your husband is a lazy jerk and needs to get off his rear and be a parent.
    KTMOM

    Answer by KTMOM at 8:48 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • listen to me i know your pain i am going through the same thing and i get fustrated and you know what my daughter is 3 and im trying to stop it now i just shake my head because i dont understand how my 3 year old has him in her pocket nothing she does is wrong and im not losing this battle keep fighting it and sometimes i feel like he needs the time out
    gianna530

    Answer by gianna530 at 11:31 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • If he's watching TV on the couch, he's probably not interacting with your daughter very much. Sounds like she's acting out to get his attention more than anything else. Have a serious talk with your husband about how important he is to your daughter's development and her emotional health. He probably doesn't realize that his interactions with her now will shape, to a degree, how she relates to men throughout her life. This page has some interesting points about the importance of a father engaging with his daughter. http://www.fathersforgood.org/ffg/en/common_challenges/factor.html
    Allaye

    Answer by Allaye at 1:18 AM on Nov. 3, 2010

  • You already answered your own question.

    her daddy just sits on the couch watchin tv
    Pnukey

    Answer by Pnukey at 8:40 PM on Nov. 6, 2010

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