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Do you look down upon women that get pregnant early on in a relationship??

Like a couple weeks or months into dating and they get pregnant. Do you look down on these women??


Asked by LiLJeni at 3:26 PM on Nov. 2, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • Why would I? I did it. My husband & I only dated 6 mo when I became pregnant...on purpose too! People had nasty stuff to say but we didnt care. It wasnt like we'd just met. We knew each other for 10 yrs, we just hadn't dated before then. Also we were in our mid 30's & he had no children yet but wanted to. We already knew we wanted to get married (which we did when she was 5 mo old). We've been married 6 years now. We are glad we did not wait to have kids because if we did it may not have happened. I've had 3 miscarriages since then & it looks like we may never have another child at this point. I dont think its my business how other people run their lives...if it doesnt directly affect me, who am I to say what other people should do!?

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:30 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • The ONLY time I "look down on a woman".. any woman. Is............

    When they are shorter than me................... :-)

    Answer by pixie_trix at 3:27 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • I don't look down on them, no. I don't agree with it neccissarily, but I don't see them as bad people until proven otherwise.

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 4:14 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • No. It's not my relationship.

    Answer by Izsarejman at 4:26 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • i got pregnant on the second date..and we had only been talking for a couple weeks..but..yaaa..i ended up getting pregnant..needless to say, ive been a single mom since day 1..he left me when i was 2 months daughter is now 6yrs old, and i wouldnt change anything!! hes the one missing out!!

    Answer by alexis_06 at 7:33 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • no, why? It takes 2 to get pregnant.

    Answer by Roadfamily6now at 3:27 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • Not really. The only time I've ever judged someone for doing things such as that is when they're trying to trap a guy in a relationship and think that by getting pregnant they'll be able to do that. It's so low. Lying and saying their on birth control when they're not (the guy's just as stupid if he doesn't use a condom though IMO).

    Answer by Nanixh at 3:31 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • I don't care, if they get preg next tuesday, just be responsible and take care of your child.

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 3:32 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • no,I was pregnant 4 months after I met my husband.

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:33 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • Nope, as long as they're a good mother and provide for their child.

    Answer by mama2br00ke at 3:37 PM on Nov. 2, 2010