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Do you look down upon women that get pregnant early on in a relationship??

Like a couple weeks or months into dating and they get pregnant. Do you look down on these women??

 
LiLJeni

Asked by LiLJeni at 3:26 PM on Nov. 2, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • Why would I? I did it. My husband & I only dated 6 mo when I became pregnant...on purpose too! People had nasty stuff to say but we didnt care. It wasnt like we'd just met. We knew each other for 10 yrs, we just hadn't dated before then. Also we were in our mid 30's & he had no children yet but wanted to. We already knew we wanted to get married (which we did when she was 5 mo old). We've been married 6 years now. We are glad we did not wait to have kids because if we did it may not have happened. I've had 3 miscarriages since then & it looks like we may never have another child at this point. I dont think its my business how other people run their lives...if it doesnt directly affect me, who am I to say what other people should do!?
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:30 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • The ONLY time I "look down on a woman".. any woman. Is............

    When they are shorter than me................... :-)
    pixie_trix

    Answer by pixie_trix at 3:27 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • I don't look down on them, no. I don't agree with it neccissarily, but I don't see them as bad people until proven otherwise.
    JazzlikeMraz

    Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 4:14 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • No. It's not my relationship.
    Izsarejman

    Answer by Izsarejman at 4:26 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • i got pregnant on the second date..and we had only been talking for a couple weeks..but..yaaa..i ended up getting pregnant..needless to say, ive been a single mom since day 1..he left me when i was 2 months pregnant..my daughter is now 6yrs old, and i wouldnt change anything!! hes the one missing out!!
    alexis_06

    Answer by alexis_06 at 7:33 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • no, why? It takes 2 to get pregnant.
    Roadfamily6now

    Answer by Roadfamily6now at 3:27 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • Not really. The only time I've ever judged someone for doing things such as that is when they're trying to trap a guy in a relationship and think that by getting pregnant they'll be able to do that. It's so low. Lying and saying their on birth control when they're not (the guy's just as stupid if he doesn't use a condom though IMO).
    Nanixh

    Answer by Nanixh at 3:31 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • I don't care, if they get preg next tuesday, just be responsible and take care of your child.
    Musicmom80

    Answer by Musicmom80 at 3:32 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • no,I was pregnant 4 months after I met my husband.
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 3:33 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

  • Nope, as long as they're a good mother and provide for their child.
    mama2br00ke

    Answer by mama2br00ke at 3:37 PM on Nov. 2, 2010

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