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bad idea or no??

is it really a bad idea for someone who is almost 19 to date a 16 yr old if they really like eachother??? we've known eachother for a few yrs, my dad and his mom and dad are friends.

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 9:52 PM on Oct. 31, 2008 in Relationships

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  • well yes, it's called statutory rape if sex is involved...

    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:54 PM on Oct. 31, 2008

  • Eww. Yes.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:56 PM on Oct. 31, 2008

  • yes it is a 16yr old does not understand
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:56 PM on Oct. 31, 2008

  • there would be no sex involved. we both know it would be considered rape. it was actually our parents who thought we should get together first.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 9:56 PM on Oct. 31, 2008

  • why not just be friends until you are both legal adults? that way nothing can come up that would make your relationship illegal.
    flutterfae

    Answer by flutterfae at 10:09 PM on Oct. 31, 2008

  • yeh, bad idea, the guy could really get in trouble if someone wanted to hate, especially if sex is involved
    camtri3

    Answer by camtri3 at 10:12 PM on Oct. 31, 2008

  • When I was 16 I dated a 19 yo and I thought that it was a great relationship but it turned out that the reason we got along so well was because he was really immature. I ended up passing him in maturity and he ended up 25 and still only attracted to 16 yo's. be sure he's attracted to you and not just your youth.
    beckcorc

    Answer by beckcorc at 10:15 PM on Oct. 31, 2008

  • Yes, it's a bad idea.
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:20 PM on Oct. 31, 2008

  • if you have to ask than you know its wrong
    Anonymous

    Answer by Anonymous at 10:29 PM on Oct. 31, 2008

  • Dating is one thing..Having having sex is against the law for the 19year old to be doing with the 16 year old...You need to check your state laws

    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 10:46 PM on Oct. 31, 2008

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