If you are still married, everything he has is yours too so you have every right to take money out of the bank account. Plus he should be getting quit a bit of money since you have children and are married and at LEAST he should give you that money. Tell him that and tell him that if he doesnt' , you will go to his CO and keep going up until you get the help you need. He will NOT want you to do this, even if his CO is covering his butt, the CO above his CO won't and they take this stuff really seriously in the military.
at 12:56 AM on Nov. 4, 2010