Answer by Jambo4 at 8:04 PM on Nov. 3, 2010
Answer by sondaughter312 at 8:10 PM on Nov. 3, 2010
Answer by A.Perry at 8:10 PM on Nov. 3, 2010
Answer by magical_mommy at 8:12 PM on Nov. 3, 2010
well, what does your daughter say when she says things like that? does she cry? does she get mad? what does she do? i tell my kids to stick up for themselves. bullies don't like it when their victim stands up for themselves. when i was in school i had some problems when kids would say things like that to me. so my mom gave me some scenarios and what i could say back to them. not name calling....you don't want to go there lol. but things like what would you say if the girl says you have a ugly shirt? 'well it's not as ugly as your attitude'. things like that. it worked for me and i was bullied pretty good in kindergarten/1st grade until i did this. it really helps to practice with her though so she will not be nervous about it. being confident is the key. gl
Answer by princessbeth79 at 8:16 PM on Nov. 3, 2010
Call and request a meeting with the principal, teacher and that girl's parents. Explain how you would like the bullying to stop. Find a solution to resolves the issues. Touch base on the schools policy of conduct and bully policies. Maybe suggest both girls have a meeting with the guidance counselor to work out their differences. Also role play with you daughter on how to handle the bullying. Such as speaking loudly back to the bully "Stop it", "Leave me alone", or how to defend herself as another mom suggested.
Answer by kmrtigger at 8:50 PM on Nov. 3, 2010
I agree wholeheartedly with princessbeth. Your daughter can stop the bullying or choose to ignore it. She will feel much more empowered if she handles it herself.
Answer by maxswolfsuit at 9:11 PM on Nov. 3, 2010
I would let the principal know what is happening in writing and that you have spoken with the teacher and if need be take it to the district level. Make sure your complaint and request for a meeting with the principal is in writing and document everything.
Answer by emerald53197 at 11:33 PM on Nov. 3, 2010
Answer by khedy at 11:53 PM on Nov. 3, 2010
Answer by KTMOM at 9:51 AM on Nov. 4, 2010