been with SO for 2.5 years.. I'm ready for another child. DS is 5- not SO's.. i'm financially stable and can afford a child on my own ($25/hr income-- possible raise soon! yay! lol). No child support from DS's bio-dad. but SO doesnt want a child right now- not ready, wants to "finish" school (he'll be going to college in March 2011). i'm 22, he's 24 (will be 25 in March). with SO's rate, DS will be 9 or 10 before the IDEA of having another child... i'd like them somewhat close... i mean, 6 years isnt close- but i waited until i'm fully stable before the thinking of having a child.. SO wants to wait til he's stable, I guess...
WWYD though? i'd really like to have a child by late 2011, or early 2012. i dont want this to be the "break up" of us-- but i dont think he'll compromise with me.
i do have money saved up-- can either go for a 3 bedroom home (downpayment) or towards the future baby- on my own.
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