I like kissing and touching and flirting with my husband. But whenever I do he gets all stand-offish, ends kisses and hugs too early, won't kiss me back, etc. He does it because in his mind the ONLY time we can kiss passionately is when we're getting ready to have sex. I say that kissing and touching leading up to that is fun, enjoyable and helps me get ready for sex faster when we DO get down to it. He wasn't always like this, but he says he doesn't remember ever flirting when we couldn't immediately have sex.
What can I do? Telling him that I am not always intending to have sex right away and that it hurts my feelings when he doesn't want to kiss or touch me unless sex is involved hasn't worked.
Asked by Anonymous at 10:53 PM on Nov. 3, 2010 in Relationships
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