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How many other women have felt that there mans interest changed once they started getting big?

Have you ladies ever felt like maybe your man lost a little something for you once you got BIG with pregnancy? My man works at a local bar as a bouncer and he see all those hott skinny young GIRLS every night. I know that he loves me and I know that he would NEVER cheat but I feel........ uggggggggh I don't know how I feel other then fat ! I love my man I know he loves me . I just hate this feeling so I was wondering if I am alone in feeling this way or if there are other ladies out there that have felt the same way or something similar.

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Asked by lilshybree83 at 10:36 AM on Nov. 4, 2010 in Pregnancy

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  • OOOO, my husband was all about the prego belly. LOL He thinks its "sexy". He loves me pregnant plus Im a whole lot more horny. That might come into play as well.

    Answer by kiansmom0423 at 10:37 AM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • yes, atleast i think he did

    Answer by djgagemommy at 10:38 AM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • It's hormones. You might feel gross, but never forget that you are growing a human being inside you.

    Answer by ballewal at 10:39 AM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • no mine was very nurturing and people described him as a the daddy lion. That was our boys in their, it wasn't ugly, it was a special time in our lives. If anything we were taking advantage of what was left of it just being the 2 of us for a very long time.

    Answer by Zoeyis at 10:45 AM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • In my case the bigger the better!! He loved it... Used to joke with me about my belly..... silly type of jokes...!.. We enjoyed pregnancy so much! He said that I looked sexier...
    No, I also now that he liked me big because of the baby, I always kept my weight at 134lbs... and I do it for me! I like food but I like my body better! LOL

    Answer by Monica655 at 11:15 AM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • he did. it wasn't because of the size of the belly..i'm no small thing, normally. he was afraid he would hurt the baby, or cause me to go into premature labor. i was crazy horny, had the biggest, firmest boobs ever in my life and for once, felt completely gorgeous about my body. he ruined it by being a fraidy-cat.
    hormones will do all kinds of tricks on the pregnant, and non-pregnant woman, OP.

    Answer by dullscissors at 11:24 AM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • I didn't feel that way. My husband was so into the pregnancy and the baby and everything that I think the belly excited him. He would talk to the baby through my stomach all the time. Our relationship hardly changed, though. I was scared that it would weird him out or he'd be scared of being intimate, that any of the typical fears would happen - he would lose interest or find it gross or anything else. But he was perfect. :)

    Answer by bandgeek521 at 3:30 PM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • WOW, the vote downs? Why ?

    Answer by kiansmom0423 at 5:20 PM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • My hubby loved my preggo tummy.

    Answer by 1Giovanni at 1:21 AM on Nov. 5, 2010

  • MY So LOVES me pregnant.. He thinks Im just as attractive.

    Answer by SuperrMommyy at 12:00 PM on Nov. 9, 2010

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