Realize it's not about the father of your child, what he has or hasn't done, or what he will or won't do. It's about you and that child. You choose to have a child, that child did not choose to be born. You have a responsibility to live your life for that baby, and do what is right for him or her in everything. That means being happy and healthy yourself as well. While you are still pregnant, do things you enjoy, things that make you smile. Be sure to take steps to ensure you'll be able to care for your child when he or she is born (Like buying diapers early, and wipeys, formula, ect....) Once the child comes, make sure to have your family and friends nearby, loads of support, and take "Daddy" to court for child support. EVERYTHING WILL WORK OUT!
at 12:58 PM on Nov. 4, 2010