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have u ever gone out to a night club with some girlfriends and a guy comes up and asks u to dance.what do u say


Asked by diana398 at 2:07 PM on Nov. 4, 2010 in Just for Fun

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  • I always gave them a shouted-aboe-the-noise speech about how I was happily married and willing to dance if they were cool with it and respectful. Most of them were, and it was fun. Sometimes I had to take back my dance acceptance, though - like when they introduce themselves as "Tyson - like the chicken." 10 years later I swear I can't walk through the chicken section of my grocery store without thinking about that guy. LOL.

    Answer by BethLopez at 2:42 PM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • No guys ever wanted to dance with me. They always wanted my friend. :(

    Answer by thatgirl70 at 2:09 PM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • I say not thanks. I have a wonderful man at home that I would rather dance with. I think that it would hurt his feelings if I danced with someone else and his feelings are more important than having a dance with someone else.

    Answer by Jademom07 at 2:17 PM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • If I'm on the dance floor I won't push them away....if I'm not and they ask, I'll respectfully decline. I am married, and although nothing would happen between the guy and I, I'm not going to give any mixed signals about it potentially happening either.

    And my husband knows this. As long as I'm on the dance floor and his hands stay either off me or just on my hips (not on my ass, around my waist, roaming anywhere else) then we're ok...

    Answer by dlandrum at 2:37 PM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • Depends on if I want to dance and if he's hot... If Urkle asks me to dance, I laugh... If Usher asks me to dance, I jump on it...

    Answer by SabrinaMBowen at 2:08 PM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • I'll dance!

    Answer by TARARENEE at 2:13 PM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • I say no and just dance with my girlfriends.

    Answer by xxMasonsMommaxx at 2:15 PM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • When I was single if I found him attractive I would, if not I would usually just say, "Thanks, but we are having a girls only night."

    Now since I've been married it depends on what they say. If they ask my name nicely I will tell them, but if they are kind of "scuzzy" about it I say, "married with a kid." lol Then after asking my name NICELY if they ask me to dance, I say, "Thank you, but I'm married."

    The only guys I have danced with since I started dating my husband have been my husband (of course), my family, his family, my son, and some of our mutual friends at weddings, etc.

    Answer by kfroz0415 at 2:21 PM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • I'll dance, no harm in a dance.

    Answer by Bubbie0809 at 2:48 PM on Nov. 4, 2010

  • If it's a guyfriend of mine then yes, I've dance with them, but a guy I don't know...I'd say no. I just don't feel comfortable with it.

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 3:00 PM on Nov. 4, 2010