i listened to my cousin vent about her "bad hand" in life & i aint feeling too hot myself ...i know that a lot of life is merely decisions we have made BUT at what point is enough... enough? and when you try to correct a decision with another, whose to say that shit wont back fire on you as well and that be a "bad" decision? many times we make decisions on the limited knowledge, skills and an experience we have at the time. if we could see the effing future we probably would not have done many things...life is a bunch of decisions that you have little to no real recourse from it seems. i guess my main issue right now is trying to choose between being a sahm and having a career...i am struggling badly doing both. working full time drains me in more ways than one but to be a sahm mom would mean poverty for us and i dont want to be a sahm....either way i dont see it working out for the best for the kids or me. decisions.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:43 PM on Nov. 4, 2010 in Money & Work
Answer by Scuba at 7:46 PM on Nov. 4, 2010
Answer by GoodyBrook at 7:48 PM on Nov. 4, 2010
I know what you mean about wishing I could see the future back when I was a teen making bad decisions.
You know you can not afford to be a SAHM. So you need to work. Ever though of going to school?
Answer by louise2 at 7:49 PM on Nov. 4, 2010
Answer by imuney at 7:58 PM on Nov. 4, 2010
Answer by Die4Jesus at 8:27 PM on Nov. 4, 2010
at what point does one stop paying for a bad decision they made?
At what point? When you stop condemning yourself for chooses you made in the pass. That is history and you can only more forward into making things better for you and your family. Staying afloat is the answer. Having a roof over your head and food on the table is priority number 1. Setting an example to your children that you don't let pass mistakes take you down. Fight for that better life.
Answer by musicmom08 at 10:51 PM on Nov. 4, 2010
Answer by LoriKeet at 6:04 PM on Nov. 5, 2010
Answer by jekrmom at 9:00 PM on Nov. 5, 2010
Answer by jekrmom at 9:01 PM on Nov. 5, 2010
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