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Meeting the SO's daughter.. SO recently told me that he'd like me to meet his 2 year old daughter... I'm really nervous... what if she hates me? Have any of you been through this? Do you have any advice?

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:29 AM on Nov. 5, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Be yourself, she is 2 she will not hate you.

    Answer by Shines3 at 12:31 AM on Nov. 5, 2010

  • I could understand your worry if she was a teenager but she is only a toddler so you'll be fine.

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 12:32 AM on Nov. 5, 2010

  • She'll be shy maybe, but I wouldnt stress it too much. If your acting all uncomfy she'll pick up on it. ANd i wouldnt be all over him because she'll know obviously your not mommy and that might get weird for her!? Just sayin...good luck..have fun.

    Answer by sweetstkissez22 at 11:08 AM on Nov. 5, 2010

  • She's still young enough to bond with you too. She'll know you aren't mommy, but you ARE an important person in her daddy's life. I really wouldn't worry about her hating you. You could try playing with her with her favorite toys or watch a movie she likes with her. Become her friend.

    Answer by MBargie at 9:13 PM on Nov. 6, 2010

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