Exactly. She divorced Chase because she lost an element of control in their relationship, even though Chase did what he did a large part because of her feelings about Dibala. Even the signing of the divorce papers was on her terms.
And here I thought I was the only one who analyzed TV characters! Y'all have Cameron pegged to a t! Personally, I think that's part of why Chase cut his hair after the divorce. He needed to do something he chose all on his own, without being influenced by anyone.