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Really....was that even called for????? adult content

Me and my boyfriend of 14 yrs have been going through some diffuicult times and we have been at it for about a week ...well this morning when he dropped me off at work I told him thanks, I love u and he told me see you later ( so I thought ) that hurt me and i got out the car and told him that was rude and close the door a little harder then usual and cross the street. He then rolls down the window and says I told you I love you too , you fucking asshole but forget it now....WHAT??? was that even called for???? How would you take it and what would you do or say if this were you?

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Anonymous

Asked by Anonymous at 2:35 PM on Nov. 5, 2010 in Relationships

Answers (15)
  • He called you a fucking asshole??!! Wow! Totally uncalled for!
    butterflyblue19

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 2:36 PM on Nov. 5, 2010

  • I think you both need to grow up.
    bcauseimthemom

    Answer by bcauseimthemom at 2:36 PM on Nov. 5, 2010

  • Sounds like you both need to pay better attention to each other and calm down when your upset.
    worriedmommy600

    Answer by worriedmommy600 at 2:37 PM on Nov. 5, 2010

  • Slamming the door in the first place was childish. So was his response.
    Misteh

    Answer by Misteh at 2:38 PM on Nov. 5, 2010

  • What you both did was uncalled for
    mommy_of_two388

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 2:38 PM on Nov. 5, 2010

  • He shouldn't have called you a fu***ng asshole. Uncalled for.
    TARARENEE

    Answer by TARARENEE at 2:39 PM on Nov. 5, 2010

  • Was slamming the door called for? What are you guys? 12? And if that's the worst of your guys' problems, you've got it good.
    cheekycherub

    Answer by cheekycherub at 2:39 PM on Nov. 5, 2010

  • definitely uncalled for, but since you two are already having problems, i think that each need to listen better and if someone says something stupid (or you think he did) perhaps best to stay quiet. why try to make more trouble when you are already in a tight situation.
    sleepymamaof3

    Answer by sleepymamaof3 at 2:43 PM on Nov. 5, 2010

  • run him over.
    kidding.
    SO freaks if i call him names.
    but i have a temper.
    and i would be mad if i said "i love you"
    and was told "see ya later"
    but i dont think either thing way the "right" way to handle the situation.
    meggo66

    Answer by meggo66 at 2:49 PM on Nov. 5, 2010

  • Well you were childish for slamming the door and he was childish for calling you that. So you are both being childish that simple.
    LiLJeni

    Answer by LiLJeni at 3:03 PM on Nov. 5, 2010

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