Ok, so my husband and I ended up moving in with my inlaws to get out of debt and save some money for a few months. Well, I looked at our bank account today, and my husband has gone out to eat 4 different times in the past 3 weeks! He said one time was cuz he was mad and didn't want to eat with everyone, another time cuz he was sick, and he doesn't have a reason for the other times. But, I thought we were trying to save money. We've also, been trying to save up a little money to go see my family for Christmas, and my husband keeps telling me that we're barely going to make it, if not at all. Do I have a right to be upset?? And how would you approach him if you were me, without causing a big fight?Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 5:03 PM on Nov. 5, 2010 in Relationships
Answer by Orionsgirl at 5:08 PM on Nov. 5, 2010
Answer by kikiandrob at 5:10 PM on Nov. 5, 2010
Whether or not I would be upset would depend on the financial "ground rules" my husband and I had established and agreed upon.
If we had mutually agreed that there would be no eating out.. Then yeah, I can see myself being upset.
If we did not mutually agree upon that... Then no, I wouldn't be upset.. I would be talking to him and setting up some financial ground rules/expectations.
Answer by pixie_trix at 5:11 PM on Nov. 5, 2010
Answer by layh41407 at 5:23 PM on Nov. 5, 2010
Answer by scout_mom at 5:28 PM on Nov. 5, 2010
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Answer by Anonymous at 5:40 PM on Nov. 5, 2010
Lol that's men for ya, they say one thing and do another. I think i would be a lil upset if we talked about it beforehand and had an understanding. Just make it clear to him without sounding mean that he needs to work with you and be more careful with the finances.
Answer by iluvmykidsxoxo at 5:40 PM on Nov. 5, 2010
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