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do you and your dude or "hubby" fight over silly things?

a lot? or sometimes? i feel like we do it often? its kind of dumb, we both think so but it happens

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Asked by danielle_hanna at 7:50 PM on Nov. 6, 2010 in Relationships

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  • Fights happen, anyone who says they never fight w/ their significant other doesn't have a healthy relationship or they're lying (just my opinion.) My husband and I used to fight all the time over stuff. We've gotten to the point over the years that we eliminate a lot of arguments by actively listening to each other more but we still have your points where we disagree.... We play fight a lot too. He likes to do things just to irritate me b/c he says I'm cute when I get irate w/ him.

    Answer by Skipo510 at 7:56 PM on Nov. 6, 2010

  • Very stupid.

    Answer by Chell.o_0 at 7:57 PM on Nov. 6, 2010

  • yeah it is dumb but I like the feeling when we make up ;)

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 8:08 PM on Nov. 6, 2010

  • rarely

    Answer by hobbitswife04 at 8:34 PM on Nov. 6, 2010

  • Everybody has disagreements, it's totally normal and healthy. And, yes when we do, they are totally stupid.

    Answer by buzymamaof3 at 8:38 PM on Nov. 6, 2010

  • Yes, especially around that time of the month or when he gets hectic at work or has a blowout with someone at work.

    Answer by mamacita69930 at 9:00 PM on Nov. 6, 2010

  • we do but later we lol a bout it

    Answer by dutchcanadain at 9:17 PM on Nov. 6, 2010

  • fighting does not ever happen but disagreements and heated discussions do and yes sometimes they are over trivial things but they always create communications and understandings that we may never have if they did not occur.


    Answer by 4_28_bbboy at 10:00 PM on Nov. 6, 2010

  • Yep, it's usually a misunderstanding and we talk it out and it's resolved.

    Answer by TwoBrownDogs at 11:07 PM on Nov. 6, 2010

  • we do not fight. NEVER. Instead we have an open line of communication. We talk about things, come to an agreement. We respect each other, that is why we do not fight, especially not over something so silly. We have a very healthy happy relationship.

    Answer by stressedmomma13 at 1:32 AM on Nov. 7, 2010

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